We are reaching out to all of you to ask for some critical yet simple help with our son’s health. In case you don’t already know, Silas has struggled with major health issues since birth. After almost four years of seeing doctor after doctor (both medicinal and naturopath docs) who could not figure out his problem, we were finally able to find help in March of this year. It took us traveling to The Center for Eosinophilic Disorders in Cincinnati, Ohio to run extensive tests to find that he has a newly discovered disease called Eosinophilic Esophagitis (EE for short). As of now, they tell us that there is no cure for this condition—only remission.
To keep it simple, Sy has an allergic reaction to all food. This reaction creates a multitude of white blood cells (eosinophils) in his upper and lower esophagus that cause much damage and swelling. Sy’s case is severe enough that he will eventually need a feeding tube. Our recent care from Cincinnati Children’s Hospital (and Heather’s hard work and research) has kept us from reaching that point so far. As of now, doctors are keeping Sy on a single source of nutrition (elemental formula) and have eliminated all foods in order to start at ground zero. It has been painful for us to remove all food from Sy’s diet, but God has performed another miracle in giving him the best attitude of anyone out there (adults included). Somehow, he deeply understands and trusts that we are trying to improve his condition.
Up until now, we have kept our struggles relatively to ourselves but we have finally reached a point where we must ask for help to continue to get our boy the care he needs. Through God’s creative handiwork, most of last year’s treatment and $15,000+ of testing and treatment was covered at 100% because we had already reached our insurance out- of-pocket maximum earlier in the year (from previous doctor visits, of course). However in April, our deductible started over. Through all the financial upheaval we have been through, God has continued to provide open doors for Silas to continue his treatment. Due to the major pay cut we took last year, we were able to get Sy approved for Florida Medicaid and they are playing a role in paying for his continued treatment; however, there are still many costs that are not covered. We are currently battling with Medicaid to get Sy’s formula and his treatment in Cincinnati covered (since it is out of state—even though no doctor/hospital in Florida can handle Sy’s case). His formula alone costs $27.50 per day (about $825 per month).
On top of these expenses, starting in September, we are supposed to start visits to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital every 6 weeks to perform follow up endoscopies (throat camera surgeries) and hopefully get Sy back on the path to eating solid food one at a time. As of right now, we have no way of making the first visit happen, so the total food elimination diet would be a waste and the EE will continue to progress. These trips only take 1-2 days, but on top of the medical expenses, there is still the airfare for one of us to take him, car rental, and lodging to incur. There have been people that God has used in ways we can’t describe to get us this far, but we feel that we must now start planning for the long road ahead.
So, why are we blogging all of this?
We need you to help us brainstorm to find ways to cover the costs of Sy’s future treatments through a large of amount of creativity and fun! We are considering future fundraising events, community awareness/research support of EE, partnering with our team of doctors in Cincinnati, donations of travel rewards/skymiles/car rentals, and many more ideas. Here’s a quick brainstorm:
1. The obvious first one is Sy’s love of bowling. This kid’s hardcore bowling obsession is definitely enough to eliminate this disease! Sy has met Norm Duke (World Champion Bowler) who happens to live in our town and we would love to maybe get him and our local bowling alley involved for a local fundraising event. We would need many hands to get this off the ground and make this successful.
2. We have also considered the idea of selling some simple and inexpensive accessory product to help raise awareness and cover our costs (bracelets, t-shirts, whatever). Any fun ideas?
3. We are looking at contacting several local news stations/newspapers to pitch Sy’s story (The Boy Who Can’t Eat Food) and his great attitude. There have been a few stories like this in the country, but none that we’ve found in the southeast. Does anyone have any contacts or experience with this?
4. Maybe you have a profession or hobby that could help get the word out or hold a benefit event (i.e. dinner, 5K/10K road race, etc.)?
There are many more ideas out there and nothing is too crazy for us to consider! Send us whatever ideas you have or possible contacts to raise awareness or funds. And please, SPREAD THE WORD!!
We’ve really tried to keep this short and to the point, but there’s so much important information to get out. Thanks for taking the time to read this and give it some thought. It means more than you realize (especially to our Sy Sy).
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I think the bowling fundraiser is such a good idea. A good place to find many hands to help out--your local high school! I am a high school teacher and usually there are many high school groups (student council, service organizations) looking for things just like this to help out with! Plus bowling is right up their alley (excuse the pun)! They could get teams together and get t-shirts and things. We have a big dodgeball tournament every year and all the money goes to a charity(different every year). We also did a 5K run for glaucoma (for our principal's son). I hope that helps! My sister-in-law posted your blog on Facebook. I hope you get lots of good ideas. Bless your son and his great attitude!
ReplyDeletewould love if you could set up an account at a local bank where people could send donations. A local family who had a house fire did this and then spread the word in facebook and local papers. I'd love to at least make some kind of donation.
ReplyDeleteSy really does have the best attitude ever! I am praying and thinking and will let you know if any brilliant ideas come to mind :-) know that you guys are always in our prayers - we love and miss you guys!
ReplyDeleteIf you want T-Shirts, banners, cards, posters, anything - I can make you some...I have connections with a t-shirt company that is owned by a previous Mosaic attendee...
ReplyDeleteWow guys! Thanks to all of you!!
ReplyDeleteGetting students to help out is a great idea! Thanks so much for writing!
Becca, you're so creative... Let me know if you think of anything. Miss you!
We'll be setting up an account for Sy very soon and will share that info. once we have it.
Robin, I know Jordan is wanting t-shirts... I'll have him get in touch with you.
Maybe I bootcamp master class ? Have people make bets on who can last the longest or a runathon? Then the $ can be donated to the person who goes the longest .. Maybe kids could have a bake sale on Sundays after church ? Or Put on a play sell tickets and donate the money? I could do a bake to school cutathon but it kinda late for that.. I will keep thinking.. Prayer hugs and kisses
ReplyDeleteSo what if you guys pic a color, maybe Sy's favorite, and then make that the color for EE awareness. Then you could make ribbons, shirts, and bracelets in that color. I found an Army Navy surplus store here in Waco that sells paracord for .06 a foot. If it takes about 10 feet to make an 8 inch bracelet, then the cost is 60 cents. I have been seeing these things sell for about 8 to 10 bucks. The downside is that it takes about 30 minutes to make a couple of bracelets so it would take 1 person 4 months to make 1000, if you make 4 a night.
ReplyDeleteOR if we could jump on the next silly bands type of fad then do a version using whatever color you guys pick for EE awareness.
I went trolling for awareness ribbon type merch and it seems like breast cancer has products on lock down. All sorts of things that could be sold to raise funds and raise awareness.
I'm a hairdresser and our salon has done cutathons before to raise money for dufferent organizations. Maybe I could talk to my boss about it?
ReplyDeleteKim Cronce
Ryan, we love your idea! I will look into colors today.
ReplyDeleteKim, Wow! That would be incredible!!
My 18 year old daughter was diagnosed with this disorder a few months ago after getting food stuck in her esophagus. It was terrifying to see you child like that. She had to have it surgically removed. Fortunately she does not have it as bad as your little boy. Only treatment is avoiding the foods she is allergic to. Milk, eggs, and beef top the list. Her list continues to grow. It has been a frustrating adjustment for her. We have no medical insurance. It has made it difficult, but she has come up with her list of foods on her own. She can feel her esophagus swelling now that she knows that is what is happening. I hope Sy get to the point that there are some foods he can eat. He is a tough little boy!!
ReplyDeleteyou could probably get a good response from a fundraiser here: http://www.kickstarter.com/
ReplyDeletebest of luck!
Color for Eosinophilic awareness is either hot pink or periwinkle (periwinkle being the common color for GI disorders in general). :-)
ReplyDeleteHello. Just saw your story on Fox 29 West Palm Beach, Fl. My 6 year old daugther is very allergic to all foods along with other immune and gastro problems. You would never know looking at her. I am writing to thank you for sharing your story. Ruthie was scoped for EE Nov 2008 and it came back clean but turned up her gastroparesis problem. She also "eats" only EO28 Splash and I have gotten my insurance company to pay for some and the manufactor of the formula pays the rest so we now get it for FREE!
ReplyDeleteKim Clements
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Thanks so much for all of the response... Wow! We are so grateful!!
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